Signs That a Relationship Might Be a Trauma Bond
Michele Shaw
There is an important difference between a trauma bond and bonding over shared trauma. People who have gone through trauma together will often find that their connection deepens because they understand one another in a way no one else can. This can be a vital dynamic to the healing process, and it often involves more than two individuals, as in the case of a group of people or siblings who have navigated trauma together. A trauma bond, however, describes an unhealthy, codependent connection between two people where one plays the role of the abuser and the other plays the victim. Trauma bonds can be powerful and emotional despite their toxicity,...
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